Treats for the Strange

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Inherently dominant, submissive or neutral

"There is no sex position or sex act which is inherently dominant, submissive, or neutral. None. The characterization of every single sex act depends on context, a context which comes from a person’s history and the relationship between them and their partner. This is where a number of feminists and BDSM enthusiasts have gone wrong, positioning some things (being the penetrative partner, receiving oral sex) as always dominant, and their complement as always submissive."

1 comment:

  1. Depends on the mindset of the participant. As a lifelong submissive, I can't view penetration or giving oral as anything but a submissive act. Somehow, if I was "made" to penetrate someone, no matter how I was coerced, forced, threatened, etc. to do so, it could never feel like a submissive act.



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