most common fantasies

These are adorable! I'm really fond of a lot of Humon's art, there's a lot of creativity, different body sizes, kink and exploration of different sexualities. I don't think this is the entire comic, just the first parts, but I highly suggest looking up more of Humon's work.


Now for my take on each of these kinks:

Objectification
As anyone who read my blog with any regularity should know, I love this. Objectification is beautiful, often artistic and it makes a person into a stunning statue or work of art. As far as I'm concerned, you can't go wrong.

Still, I always worry that my boy will get bored of being a footrest while I read. It never seems to happen though. :)

Chastity
I'm not really interested in chastity myself, since sex is an integral part of me and my relationship. I understand not having it once in awhile because then everything seems even more amazing when you finally do... but we tried a chastity device and not only do they not work very well for female-bodied people, but they're cumbersome and hard to get off when your pet really has to pee.

I can see why people are into it, but I'd much rather control someone by saying 'no, you don't have permission to touch yourself' rather than buckling them into this contraption. I'd want them to have some self-control.

Forced bisexuality
Any kink with the word 'forced' in it tends to bother me a little. I know that most of the time, the idea of being forced into something is erotic and it's just roleplay, but I know if I was a gay submissive and someone tried to do forced bisexuality with me, that'd be a red immediately, and we'd have to have a serious talk.

Still, allowing someone to experiment with their urges for the same or opposite sex is wonderful, as long as all parties are consenting.

Forced feminization
There's been a lot of talk about this one lately. Mostly, people see this as humiliating. Which drives me up the wall. There is nothing humiliating about being dressed as a woman. What should really be called humiliating is that generally those who are into forced feminization are into being dressed up in a very provocative way. I know if someone dressed me up that way, I'd be pissed off.

The idea that crossdressers see women as sluts bothers me. But I've never actually met a crossdresser that can accurately describe what it is that they want and what they get out of this.

I think it shouldn't be called crossdressing. It should be called slut-dressing or something. There's nothing wrong with being a slut, but not all women are and it's not very flattering to say 'I'm dressing as a woman' when you're dressing as a percentage of women.

I do understand the appeal of dressing your play partner up like a slut, calling them names, getting them to play a role they never play in public. However, it isn't a reflection on all women.

Sometimes I wonder if I just over think these things because of who I live with and am mentored by.

Any crossdressers/sissies/those into feminization reading this have an opinion?

Anyway, go check out Humon for some awesome art.

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Stunning

I'm quite fond of this one. I don't always appreciate 'feminization' or cross-dressing in kink, but that's probably because so many people do it for reasons that I don't understand or agree with. For example because men cannot submit, therefore they have to be more feminine. Or because being more feminine or more like a woman is degrading or humiliating. Or because men aren't pretty or beautiful unless they're dressed in a feminine way.

The person who submitted this to Male submission secrets has the right idea. This is why I enjoy cross-dressing, not 'feminization'. It's because a man can be masculine and butch and stubbly and muscular and all those wonderful things, and he can also look absolutely drop dead gorgeous in heels and stockings. And the best part is, wearing those heels don't make him 'feminine'. He can be totally butch in those heels and lingerie. He can be a big strong man in lace petticoats.

And that is what makes 'cross-dressing' really sexy to me.

Really, I wish it wasn't cross-dressing. I wish that men could dress in skirts and heels and have it be as normal as women wearing pants. That's just the world we live in, for now.

gas mask and pink bows

I'm not sure why I suddenly love black latex, since I've never found it all that appealing before, but I love this picture. The sweet pink bows make it perfect.

From Captive Culture.

Pet with a bow

A cute little pet brings her master the newspaper. I like the bow in her hair, it reminds me of something dog owners do with their frou-frou little toy dogs.

Like this!

This is the kind of pet she would be. Mostly useless, but pretty cute.

Photo from Raven's Kink.

pastel puppy

A pink and purple puppy boy, dressed in a skirt, stockings and long gloves. I love those kinds of posture collars... which I think is why all the posture collars I've found and tried on my pet in real life just aren't good enough. They'll never look as nice as the artist's idea of a posture collar.

Not terribly fond of puppy gloves like those ones.. I prefer slimmer ones, and not leather, but the blindfold, collar and puppy pose are great. And the cushion to sit on is a nice touch.

Art by Frog.

cock under a skirt

So cute and feminine.

Lacy thong

Hehe, I'm not sure why this picture is so adorable.

dress up

Two women help a man into a corset. Though I don't find feminization to be an exercise in humiliation, I do enjoy gender play and his concerned face is pretty adorable.

Art by Paul Kamm.

Ballet splints

Rope ballet splints. Lovely idea. Could be done more artistically, but I've never seen them before.

Nipple stroking

I found this picture on Mr. S as well. I don't like it quite as much as the other, but I really like both men's expressions, and the rope chest harness is quite beautiful. I like the blindfold, and how delicate and feminine the bound partner is, while still being muscular and clearly male. It's almost like his head is shaved to remind us he's a man. I also like how the top is petting the bottom's nipple, and that they captured the motion in the picture.

Coy

I just love the coy expression and pose the bottom has, and the way the top is holding his hair. Wonderful.

Art by DarkBullet and LaCalaca.

Human art

Flexible and strong human art. Human objectification is always sexy, but it's even more wonderful as they become exotic sculptures.

Art by KorikoC

Crossdressing

This is a great crossdressing picture, one of my favorites. I think it might be the pose and the fact that we don't see his face. The few curls down his back and the soft white underskirt make this so much softer and more feminine.

Heels

He's very masculine; he's hairy, lean and muscular, with a strong jaw and large hands. And yet the heels instantly feminize and fetishize him.