So, you know how some people say something like 'cute top!' when they see a friend or are meeting a new one? I've found myself saying 'cute collar!' at least a half dozen times now. I love having kinky friends.
From Hyper Market.
Art, literature, poetry, essays, thoughts and tidbits about bondage, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, fetish, safety, kink, gender and love.
Treats for the Strange
Welcome to Treats for the Strange. I update erratically, whenever I feel the need to share something in my very pansexual collection.
Treats for the Strange is for anyone with a love of sexuality, art and kink.
Welcome.
pet lapping up a treat
From I honor her.
omg what a cute pet boy! I wonder if he’s actually lapping up some ice cream or if they’ve given him water or milk to drink and just reused the container? I love fuzzy stubbly boys already and when they’re submitting, especially in a pet dog sort of way… well I’d keep him. :D
I'm not sure why but lately I have a serious stubble-craving.
Deliciously bound
From Curiocabinet.
I have such a boner for this artist's work.
I have such a boner for this artist's work.
I want to see Curiocabinet’s series of bound boys turned into paintings… or into photos... or as a gallery of live models. Wouldn’t that be lovely? You walk in and walk amongst the hanging people, all different shapes and sizes and colors… If I had money I’m sure I’d waste some of it on that wonderful dream.
Damn, now I'm drooling :(
Inherently dominant, submissive or neutral
"There is no sex position or sex act which is inherently dominant, submissive, or neutral. None. The characterization of every single sex act depends on context, a context which comes from a person’s history and the relationship between them and their partner. This is where a number of feminists and BDSM enthusiasts have gone wrong, positioning some things (being the penetrative partner, receiving oral sex) as always dominant, and their complement as always submissive."
Marked and down
A lovely treat from the talented Anoki. A bottom licks his top's boots, his ass in the air showing off some lovely marks from a riding crop. Oh, that outfit! Oh, those marks! Oh, the disheveled hair! Yummy.
Fetish pony
However, how difficult would it be to care for an outfit like this? I'm honestly clueless when it comes to rubber and latex. I'm not sure if her straps are leather or not, but that's a lot of hardware and bits and pieces to care for.
This is part of why I am not into the fetish wear much for myself. Too much work for not enough satisfaction for me. Still, it's really nice to see such a put-together fetish outfit, especially on a lovely person of any gender.
Bridal submission
Now I wish I'd had a bigger wedding with my kinky friends just for the photoshoot opportunities....
I found this on Onyx Cage, but I can't find the original source. Anyone know that logo?
I found this on Onyx Cage, but I can't find the original source. Anyone know that logo?
strapped down
Is he being sounded? Purr.
Clothespins and pretty straps... what could be wrong with that? :)
From Femdom resource.
Clothespins and pretty straps... what could be wrong with that? :)
From Femdom resource.
XO
Xs and Os played on a marked sub's bottom. Great idea. Though I've been wanting to play marble solitaire on my boy's back for awhile, rather than Xs and Os. It's hard to play that by yourself. Solitaire, however...
I'm not sure if they're marks from caning or from gentle knife play, it's hard to tell.
From Not Jes.
I'm not sure if they're marks from caning or from gentle knife play, it's hard to tell.
From Not Jes.
Hemp rope
Very intricate bondage, and with what looks like hemp rope too. I'm not terribly fond of the appearance of the gag. The blindfold is okay, but the gag... ugh. I couldn't pass up this picture though, the bondage is wonderful and I especially love that it doesn't wrap around his neck, that it binds him to the table and that it's completely full body. Gold star!
From Pretty Kinky Things.
From Pretty Kinky Things.
coffee table
A man acts as a table under a pane of glass. I like that he's dressed as if this is his workplace, and this is his usual work. The mugs on the table make it even more realistic too, as if he's being used for his intended purpose instead of just fetishized.
Awesome photo.
Awesome photo.
Skin
Picture from Arkandia.
From The Lair.
I think I also just love skin. When I was younger I had issues with the human body (mostly mine), and it's taken me a long time to realize this, but I love skin. I love soft skin and rough skin and scarred skin and untouched skin and hairy skin and naked skin and goose-pimpled skin and tattooed skin and freckled skin. I love stretch marks and bruises and scars. I love the intimate skin of someone's neck or thigh and the every day skin covering our fingers. I love the whorls and patterns of our skin and hair and most of all, I love when people love their bodies.
From Hikari Kesho.
I wish I loved my body all the time. I'm getting there. I never would have felt sexy being such a round person before. I had a hatred of my body growing up, stemming from my mom, who hated her body and often got me to join her in an attempt to 'change for the better'. I walk more than I ever did then. And I enjoy it. I'm overweight, fat and I think my stretch-marked belly is fucking awesome. My horribly female breasts are another matter, but when I wear my chest binder I have the sweetest chubby boy chest. I love it.
From Gender Bender.
Aaand I didn't mean to write so much. I'm off to sleep.
Strange Treats
Strange Treat
Unfamiliar Food
Striking Pleasure
Unknown Gift
Exotic Surprise
Unusual Entertainment
Foreign Celebration
Strange
1. Not previously known; unfamiliar.
2.
a. Out of the ordinary; unusual or striking.
b. Differing from the normal.
3. Not of one's own or a particular locality, environment, or kind; exotic.
4.a. Reserved in manner; distant.
b. Not comfortable or at ease; constrained.
5. Not accustomed or conditioned: She was strange to her new duties.
6. Archaic Of, relating to, or characteristic of another place or part of the world; foreign.
adv.
In a strange manner.
Treat
5.a. To provide with food, entertainment, or gifts at one's own expense: treated her sister to the theater.
b. To give (someone or oneself) something pleasurable: treated herself to a day in the country.
pretty pink bondage
So pretty and pink...! Though I enjoy dark colors and black leather and all that, it's nice to see some pretty pink bdsm too. :)
Replace one word of your URL with cock
Heh.
Strangecock.
Cocktreats.
Teehee, I want to make cock-shaped cookies now.
stockings and a suit
A good red butt, from Fetish 4. I like the fact the top is in a suit. They got dressed up for a night out together, came home and had a little play before bed. That's my idea of a great night. Though, often minus the whole leaving the house thing. That's totally over-rated.
*hermit*
A Gentleman on his knees
Heh, awesome. Some secret oral sex in the corner of a party. Historical dress? Check. Interesting D/s? Check. Female dominance in a historical setting? Check!
From Achille Devéria.
From Achille Devéria.
Candelabra
An absolutely gorgeous scene from Learning the Ropes. She makes a lovely candle holder and the rope bondage is wonderful. This is a great idea for a typical thursday night. :D
Snuggly BDSM love
Art by Jedesto.
Aw, look at the snuggliness.
I can never get enough of this; affection and trust between two people in a D/s relationship.
So many people expect these relationships to be unhealthy, full of fear of the dominant and anger or even disgust towards the submissive. I've seen some unhealthy kinky relationships, yes. But I've seen far more unhealthy vanilla relationships. The strong kinky couples (or trios, or groups) that I've met are stronger for their kink and for the trust and communication something like this requires. You can't just snap a leash on someone without talking to them about how they feel about it first, and you can't expect any relationship to work if you're not willing to share thoughts and feelings in both directions.
Aw, look at the snuggliness.
I can never get enough of this; affection and trust between two people in a D/s relationship.
So many people expect these relationships to be unhealthy, full of fear of the dominant and anger or even disgust towards the submissive. I've seen some unhealthy kinky relationships, yes. But I've seen far more unhealthy vanilla relationships. The strong kinky couples (or trios, or groups) that I've met are stronger for their kink and for the trust and communication something like this requires. You can't just snap a leash on someone without talking to them about how they feel about it first, and you can't expect any relationship to work if you're not willing to share thoughts and feelings in both directions.
Curves and piercings
Such a lovely shape! I think the best part about this photo is that I can't tell if the model is male or female. Beautiful piercings too, in a lovely curve, just like the model's hips. Rawr.
Blowjob
An awesome photo from Young Dommes. I love that she's wearing a sweatshirt and jeans. This is a real representation of people playing. Yes, it's nice to look at models wearing leather and latex and all kinds of expensive fetwear, playing in dungeons and holding props over each other. It's nice to see fit young models tied up in beautiful rope art. But sometimes all I want is something more down to earth.
As a dominant, I find that my idea of 'dressing up' for a scene might be to dress for the time period we may be role playing. Otherwise, naked or wearing pants is good enough. It's much easier to hit someone when you're feeling comfortable. Playing in a corset is uncomfortable.
The only problem with even photos like this... is that I am jaded. I've poked through the site that this is from and found the videos a bit appalling. I got to watch to tops fighting over a boot-licking boy (if we fight each other for dominance, he'll understand what we're asking of him, right? "No, lick my boots instead!"), while wrapping their whips around his sides (ouch) and I saw a woman using a crop on a boy's head (bad!) after having poured a bottle of water over it (way to ruin your crop).
I think the only conclusion I can come to is that I've read too many safety lectures and seen too many accidents.
In other news; this is why people who get into bdsm through porn have a lot of misconceptions.
As a dominant, I find that my idea of 'dressing up' for a scene might be to dress for the time period we may be role playing. Otherwise, naked or wearing pants is good enough. It's much easier to hit someone when you're feeling comfortable. Playing in a corset is uncomfortable.
The only problem with even photos like this... is that I am jaded. I've poked through the site that this is from and found the videos a bit appalling. I got to watch to tops fighting over a boot-licking boy (if we fight each other for dominance, he'll understand what we're asking of him, right? "No, lick my boots instead!"), while wrapping their whips around his sides (ouch) and I saw a woman using a crop on a boy's head (bad!) after having poured a bottle of water over it (way to ruin your crop).
I think the only conclusion I can come to is that I've read too many safety lectures and seen too many accidents.
In other news; this is why people who get into bdsm through porn have a lot of misconceptions.
Fisting
Fisting. Is. Awesome.
If you've never tried it, I don't think I can describe it. I really enjoy being on the receiving end and recently on the other end of it too. Sex is all well and good, but fisting is so much further. It's right at the edge of pain, but when it's good, it's amazing.
I love the people in this picture. Rawr.
I found this at Sex is not the Enemy.
If you've never tried it, I don't think I can describe it. I really enjoy being on the receiving end and recently on the other end of it too. Sex is all well and good, but fisting is so much further. It's right at the edge of pain, but when it's good, it's amazing.
I love the people in this picture. Rawr.
I found this at Sex is not the Enemy.
Rope art under her clothes
Cute collar too, though I've never had a spiky one myself.
I think there needs to be more bondage under clothing going on in my life. I will dedicate my time to that this week. We'll see how it goes.
From The Shibari School.
Human sink
I'm not sure what medium this was drawn with, but it is gorgeous. I would want a sink like that. It's beautiful objectification of the human body.
Though personally I'd rather the 'man' not be wearing pants. This is still beautiful and I would pay a great deal of money for a sink like this.
From planet damage.
Though personally I'd rather the 'man' not be wearing pants. This is still beautiful and I would pay a great deal of money for a sink like this.
From planet damage.
Fancy black ropes
Here's a little celebration of unshaven women for you all to enjoy! Ginger fuzz is the cutest fuzz, in my admittedly biased opinion. Lovely rope work, lovely woman and a great photo.
Fuzzy ladies make me happy. :)
Photo from Fetish 4.
Fuzzy ladies make me happy. :)
Photo from Fetish 4.
cuffed and leashed
I like these cuffs! Awesome. They look heavy. Nice collar too, I like metal collars.
Great photo from Cynical Trash.
Great photo from Cynical Trash.
Whip marks in ink
I'm fond of ink art. A mix of bdsm and ink is pretty damn awesome. From Razriel. I really like this artist's work.
Suspended
Rope suspension from rope-topia. It's interesting, the model looks like someone I know. She doesn't have that ankle tattoo though, as far as I know. Hmm, now I have to ask her!
I've always been curious about suspension. I wonder how different full suspension feels compared to partial suspension. Completely off the ground, held up by rope or chain around suspension points. Do you feel weightless or heavy? Does the rope cut into you?
I hope I'll get to try it in the next few years. I probably wouldn't allow them to suspend me, but I'd want them to help me suspend my wife. There are only a few people I would trust to teach me and neither of them live in the city. Damn smaller centers.
I've always been curious about suspension. I wonder how different full suspension feels compared to partial suspension. Completely off the ground, held up by rope or chain around suspension points. Do you feel weightless or heavy? Does the rope cut into you?
I hope I'll get to try it in the next few years. I probably wouldn't allow them to suspend me, but I'd want them to help me suspend my wife. There are only a few people I would trust to teach me and neither of them live in the city. Damn smaller centers.
She is going to be mean
Photo from Mistress Sade.
Some iiinteresting blood play. She moved him over this sheet with blood dripping from his cock to make this words. "She is going to be mean".
beautiful bondage
One of the newest pictures from Tarosan. He does such amazing work! I'm envious as an artist as well as a bondage-lover.
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