Relatable

Is it strange that I look at this photo and I think 'aww, cute couple'? I want to see more female dominants in action.

For some reason, our city is mostly made up of male tops and bottoms of both genders (at least the kinksters that come out to events and munches). I only see one other female top with any regularity. Though thankfully I see at least twice weekly, so if I have a question or opinion, I always have her to bounce it off.

I don't always identify as a female dominant. I don't even identify as female all the time, but I am dominant to my boy and I am female sometimes. And I find I don't relate terribly well to a lot of the male tops. Perhaps in a bigger city, I'd find someone more relatable. Maybe I'd relate better to gay male tops, or trans male tops. Cis male tops don't have the same experience and don't seem to be coming from the same place.

Maybe I'm just more of a sadist, haha.

Photo from My Darker Sides.

I'd buy that for $1!

I just found this picture on Mr. S Leather, and I just love it. For one thing, I totally love when 'butch' men are the bottoming partner, I find it very attractive. I love the way his neck is being held by the top, and how the top is looking right into his eyes. I love the bottom's expression--I can't quite tell what it is, but it looks like a bit of pain, with some rage and joy tossed into the mix. I also love his long canines biting the gag. Oh, I now notice that the bottom's left arm is also splayed, pressed against the wall. Wonderful.

Tender

This artist put some loving detail into the tender dominance between these two. Beautiful work by Phoenix Rising.